Talking To People, Not At Them

Scroll through your feeds and you’ll notice it: most creators, brands, and leaders aren’t really conversing. They’re performing. They’re broadcasting. They’re talking at us, not to us.

But here’s the truth: the art of conversation is about dialogue, not monologue.

Broadcast vs. Dialogue


Old media—radio, TV, print—was mostly one-directional. You listened, watched, or read. But new media gives us something extraordinary: interactivity. The problem? Many of us are still stuck in old broadcast habits.

Conversation online requires something different. It requires slowing down, asking questions, and inviting participation.

Why Engagement Beats Reach


It doesn’t matter if you have 5,000 followers if no one comments, shares, or feels connected to your content. A loyal community of 500 engaged people is far more powerful.

Twitch streamers are a perfect example. Their success doesn’t come from fancy production value—it comes from real-time conversation. By reading comments, responding instantly, and creating an inclusive environment, they turn audiences into communities.

A Quote to Remember
“People will forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.” – Maya Angelou.

Practical Tip


The simplest way to shift from performance to conversation? Ask. End your post, podcast, or video with a question:

  • “What do you think about this?”
  • “Has this been your experience too?”
  • “How would you approach it differently?”


In new media, the future doesn’t belong to those who can talk the loudest. It belongs to those who can converse. Start talking to your audience, not at them.

See YOU at Comic Con Africa https://comicconafrica.co.za/guest/chris-jordan/

SPEAKER/S INFORMATION:

Name: Chris Jordan

Title: New Media Corporate Consultant / On Air Presenter / Podcaster

Company: Chris Jordan Media / 919FM

SESSION/S INFORMATION:

Date: Sunday, 31 August 2025

Stage: POP-TAKU STAGE

Time: 12:00-12:30

Topic: The Art of Conversation in the Realm of New Media

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